Help and support
Got a question, a problem or something to say? I'm Tai, I make Who Am I? on my own, and I read every message.
Get in touch. In the app, go to Settings › Send feedback, or email me. I usually reply within a few days.
Your portrait
How old do I need to be?
Who Am I? is for people aged 16 and over. Portraits are public, so if you see one from someone younger, tap ••• and Report, or email me, and I'll remove it.
How do I add my portrait?
Open the Ask tab and tap Begin. Six small steps: your name, your town (optional), your age (optional), your answer and a photo, then a last look before you tap Who am I?. Your portrait is revealed, and you can share it or tap Add to the gallery.
Can I change my answer?
A portrait can't be edited once it's in the gallery, but you can delete it and answer again whenever you like. Each answer is a new portrait.
How do I delete my portrait?
Go to Settings › Your portraits, swipe left on the portrait and tap Delete. It's removed for everyone. For a portrait added with an earlier version of the app, go to Settings › Send feedback and choose My portrait, or email me its name and town, and I'll remove it.
Why can't I see my portrait in the gallery?
The gallery opens on a daily selection of featured portraits. Tap the menu at the top left and choose Newest to see everyone in order, newest first. Your own new portrait also shows first for a day after you add it.
Is my exact location shared?
No. Only your town is kept, never where you are. You can search for your town instead of using your location, or skip it.
Can my portrait be in the app icon?
Yes, if you'd like. Go to Settings › App icon › Be in a future icon, choose your portrait and confirm you're 18 or over and it's you. Not every offer is used, and you can change your mind there at any time.
One Thing Everyone
How do I share my advice?
Open Wisdom and tap Share yours, or tap One more question after adding your portrait. I read every piece before it appears in Wisdom, on onethingeveryone.com and in the Of the Day app.
How do I remove my advice?
Email me with your name and the advice, and I'll take it down.
Safety
Someone's portrait is inappropriate. What can I do?
Tap ••• on the portrait, then Report, and choose spam or inappropriate. I review every report. To hide everything from that person straight away, choose Block this person. You can undo blocks in Settings › Unblock everyone.
Supporter and tips
What is Supporter?
An optional monthly or yearly subscription for people who'd like to help keep Who Am I? going. Nothing in the app is ever locked; Supporters get a few thank-yous, like extra app icons and a mark on their portraits. You can also leave a one-off tip.
How do I cancel or change my subscription?
In the Settings app, tap your name, then Subscriptions, then Who Am I?. You can also get there from Who Am I?: Settings › Support Who Am I? › Manage subscription.
I've changed iPhone. How do I get Supporter back?
Go to Settings › Support Who Am I? and tap Restore purchases, signed in with the same Apple Account.
How do I get a refund?
Apple handles all payments and refunds. Request one at reportaproblem.apple.com.
Everything else
How do I add the widgets?
Settings › Widgets in the app shows each one and how to add it to your Home Screen, Lock Screen, StandBy or Control Centre.
How do I join or leave the mailing list?
Join in Settings › Mailing list. To leave, use the unsubscribe link in any email, or reply "unsubscribe".
Which iPhones and iPads does it work on?
Who Am I? needs iOS 26 or iPadOS 26 or later.